[simpits-tech] OT:An excerpt from a Mormon missionary guide, circa 1970

[Chris Crowley]

Hey Gene,
Need to post this to the site right away! Some of our OT POSTers could use
this guide to mend their evil ways.
Chris Crowley

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Subject: [simpits-tech] OT:An excerpt from a Mormon missionary
guide,circa 1970


STEPS IN OVERCOMING MASTURBATION
Mark E. Petersen
Council of the 12 Apostles
Be assured that you can be cured of your difficulty. Many have been, both
male and female, and you can be also if you determine that it must be so.
This determination is the first step. That is where we begin. You must
decide that you will end this practice, and when you make that decision, the
problem will be greatly reduced at once.

But it must be more than a hope or a whish, more than knowing that it is
good for you. It must be actually a DECISION. If you truly make up your mind
that you will be cured, then you will have the strength to resist any
tendencies which you may have and any temptations which may come to you.

After you have made this decision, then observe the following specific
guidelines:



A Guide to Self-Control

Never touch the intimate parts of your body except during normal toilet
processes.
Avoid being alone as much as possible. Find good company and stay in this
good company.
If you are associated with other persons having this same problem, YOU MUST
BREAK OFF THEIR FRIENDSHIP. Never associate with other people having the
same weakness. Don't suppose that two of you will quit together, you never
will. You must get away from people of that kind. Just to be in their
presence will keep your problem foremost in your mind. The problem must be
taken OUT OF YOUR MIND for that is where it really exists. Your mind must be
on other and more wholesome things.
When you bathe, do not admire yourself in a mirror. Never stay in the bath
more than five or six minutes -- just long enough to bathe and dry and dress
AND THEN GET OUT OF THE BATHROOM into a room where you will have some member
of your family present.
When in bed, if that is where you have your problem for the most part, dress
yourself for the night so securely that you cannot easily touch your vital
parts, and so that it would be difficult and time consuming for you to
remove those clothes. By the time you started to remove protective clothing
you would have sufficiently controlled your thinking that the temptation
would leave you.
If the temptation seems overpowering while you are in bed, GET OUT OF BED
AND GO INTO THE KITCHEN AND FIX YOURSELF A SNACK, even if it is in the
middle of the night, and even if you are not hungry, and despite your fears
of gaining weight. The purpose behind this suggestion is that you GET YOUR
MIND ON SOMETHING ELSE. You are the subject of your thoughts, so to speak.
Never read pornographic material. Never read about your problem. Keep it out
of mind. Remember -- "First a thought, then an act." The thought pattern
must be changed. You must not allow this problem to remain in your mind.
When you accomplish that, you soon will be free of the act.
Put wholesome thoughts into your mind at all times. Read good books --
Church books -- Scriptures -- Sermons of the Brethern [sic, Cistern too?].
Make a daily habit of reading at least one chapter of Scripture, preferably
from one of the four Gospels in the New Testament, or the Book of Mormon.
The four Gospels -- Matthew, Mark, Luke and John -- above anything else in
the Bible can be helpful because of their uplifting qualities.
Pray. But when you pray, don't pray about this problem, for that will tend
to keep [it] in your mind more than ever. Pray for faith, pray for
understanding of the Scriptures, pray for the Missionaries, the General
Authorities, your friends, your families, BUT KEEP THE PROBLEM OUT OF YOUR
MIND BY NOT MENTIONING IT EVER -- NOT IN CONVERSATION WITH OTHERS, NOT IN
YOUR PRAYERS. KEEP IT _OUT_ of your mind!
The attitude of a person toward his problem has an affect [sic] on how easy
it is to overcome. It is essential that a firm commitment be made to control
the habit. As a person understands his reasons for the behavior, and is
sensitive to the conditions or situations that may trigger a desire for the
act, he develops the power to control it.

We are taught that our bodies are temples of God, and are to be clean so
that the Holy Ghost may dwell within us. Masturbation is a sinful habit that
robs one of the Spirit and creates guilt and emotional stress. It is not
physically harmful unless practiced in the extreme. It is a habit that is
totally self-centered, and secretive, and in no way expresses the proper use
of the procreative power given to man to fulfill eternal purposes. It
therefore separates a person from God and defeats the gospel plan.

This self-gratifying activity will cause one to lose his self-respect
testimony becomes weak, and missionary work and other Church callings become
burdensome, offerings.

To help in planning an effective program to overcome the problem a brieation
is given of how the reproductive organs in a young man function.

The testes in your body are continually producing hundreds of millions of
reproductive cells call spermatozoa. These are moved up a tube called the
vas deferens to a place called the ampulla where they are mixed with fluids
from two membranous pouches called seminal vesicles and the prostate gland.
The resultant fluid is calleeminal vesicles are full a signa to the central
nervous system indicating they are ready to benother, depending on such
things as exercise, state of health, etc. everal times a week, for others.

It is normal for the vesicles to be emptied occasionally at night during the
emptying of come from the cetral nervous system. Often an erotic dream is
experienced at the same time, and is a part of this normal process. Instead
ourse, the reproductive system is operating at a more rapid pace, trying to
keep up with the loss of semen. When he stops the habit, the body will
continue to produce at his increased rate, for an indefese are not harmful
and are to be endured until the normal central nervous system pathway of rel
[NOTE: The rest of the paragraph is missing.]

As one meets with his Priesthood Leader, a program for overcoming
masturbation can be implemented using some of the techniques mentioned
above. Remember it is essential that a regular report program be agreed on,
so progress can be recognized and failures understood and eliminated.



Suggestions

Pray daily, ask for the gifts of the Spirit, that which will strengthen you
against temptation. Pray fervently and not lout when the temptations are the
strongest.
Follow a program of vigorous daily exercise. The exercises reduce emotional
tension and depression and are absolutely basic to the solution of this
problem. Double your physical activity when you feel stress increasing.
When the temptation to masturbate is strong, yell _STOP_ to those thoughts
as loudly as you can in your mind and then recite a prechosen Scripture or
sing an inspirational hymn. It is important to turn your thoughts away from
the selfish need to indulge.
Set goals of abstinence, begin with a day, then a week, month, year and
finally commit to never doing it again. Until you commit yourself to _never
again_ you will always be open to temptation.
Change in behavior and attitude is most easily achieved through a changed
self-image. Spend time every day imagining yourself strong and in control,
easily overcoming tempting situations.
Begin to work daily on a self-improvement program. Relate this plan to
improving your Church service, to improving your relationships with your
family, God and others. Strive to enhance your strengths and talents.
Be outgoing and friendly. Force yourself to be with others and learn to
enjoy working and talking to them. Use principles of developing friendships
found in books such as _How to Win Friends and Influence People_ by Dale
Carnegie.
Be aware of situations that depress you or that cause you to feel lonely,
bored, frustrated or discouraged. These emotional states can trigger the
desire to masturbate as a way of escape. Plan in advance to counter these
low periods through various activities, such as reading a book, visiting a
friend, doing something athletic, etc.
Make a pocket calendar for a month on a small card. Carry it with you, but
show it to no one. If you have a lapse of self control, color the day black.
Your goal will be to have _no black days_. The calendar becomes a strong
visual reminder of self control and should be looked at when you are tempted
to add another black day. Keep your calendar up until you have at least
three clear months.
A careful study will indicate you have had the problem at certain times and
under certain conditions. Try and recall, in detail, what your particular
times and conditions were. Now that you understand how it happens, plan to
break the pattern through counter activities.
In the field of psychotherapy there is a very effective technique called
_aversion therapy_. When we associate or think of something very distasteful
with something which has been pleasurable, but undesirable, the distasteful
thought and feeling will begin to cancel out that which was pleasurable. If
you associate something very distasteful with your loss of self-control it
will help you to stop the act. For example, if you are tempted to
masturbate, think of having to bathe in a tub of worms, and eat several of
them as you do the act.
During your toileting and shower activities leave the bathroom door or
shower curtain partly open, to discourage being alone in total privacy. Take
cool brief showers.
Arise immediately in the mornings. Do not lie in bed awake, no matter what
time of day it is. Get up and do something. Start each day with an
enthusiastic activity.
Keep your bladder empty. Refrain from drinking large amounts of fluids
before retiring.
Reduce the amount of spices and condiments in your food. Eat as lightly as
possible at night.
Wear pajamas that are difficult to open, yet loose and not binding.
Avoid people, situations, pictures or reading materials that might create
sexual excitement.
It is sometimes helpful to have a physical object to use in overcoming this
problem. A Book of Mormon, firmly held in hand, even in bed at night has
proven helpful in extreme cases.
In very severe cases it may be necessary to tie a hand to the bed frame with
a tie in order that the habit of masturbating in a semi-sleep condition can
be broken. This can also be accomplished by wearing several layers of
clothing which would be difficult to remove while half asleep.
Set up a reward system for your successes. It does not have to be a big
reward. A quarter in a receptacle each time you overcome or reach a goal.
Spend it on something which delights you and will be a continuing reminder
of your progress.
Do not let yourself return to any past habit or attitude patterns which were
part of your problem. Satan Never Gives Up. Be calmly and confidently on
guard. Keep a positive mental attitude. You can win this fight! The joy and
strength you will feel when you do will give your whole life a radiant and
spiritual glow of satisfaction and fulfillment.

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